THE ABUSERS : Alliteration Poetry

Abuse ~nature vs. nurture?

Our children are killing each other

Not a day goes by that we read a headline of some bizarre act of violence//

What has happened 2 society that we now are a statistically abusive lot?

The advent of science now dictates there are key elements genetically and psychologically that dictate abusive behavior.

It is a form of mental illness

Generally it is a statistical fact that abusers have been abused by generally a parent. However there are many who grew up in fine homes with wonderful nurturing that turn to bad seeds.

There is no doubt in my mind that the vast majority of it is now caused by useless entertainments with gore, violence, brutality as key elements that frankly dictate IT SALES. AND IT SALES BIG

It has been proven that key elements of the brain are unable up to the age of around 18 to distinguish right and wrong.

Further it has been established that violent, repeat criminals who commit the most ghastly acts - brains function differently.

It has scientifically been proven these violent offenders can’t distinguish normal behavior. Their lust and thirst 4 violence grows. They get a thrill off it. Generally in men it starts in childhood, they start out being the type of child who is the bully. Finding out very young force and aggressiveness gives them pleasure, and control. Most are masters of hiding it.

That is why we are often shocked when the mass rapist or murderer was the guy next store, with a family and very often are active in the community and church.

They also start very young=generally mutilate animals and torture them to death. Often hiding their crimes and getting a thrill off of getting by with it.

Most of them get sexual thrills off of it, finding only the key element of control and rape to find sexual satisfaction. One of the key elements to spotting a child who is prone to violence is seeing their drawings as a child. They will draw torturous pictures, blood, people hanging. Almost always these people start having sexual fantasies young of sirens, what they call the incubus demons, they appear in their sleep bloody, and gory attacking them in their sleep causing them to have wet dreams to get off.

Generally a sign of an abusive personality is a bondage fetish in sexual behavior. Generally they want to hold down, tie people up etc.

Many of these behaviors can be controlled by medication, the problem is they go in life untreated. This of course is the worst example of abuse.

Then there are the normal every day beaters. It may surprise you all to know they are not all men. Many woman, beat, throw things, scream and have extreme violent tendency.

It is just a man is most often to ashamed to admit it, and if he in any way fights back he is generally the one to be arrested. It is all severely rampant in society today, with the greater amount of police calls being domestic problems and abuse.

And it is not just a problem of the lower classes, it’s just the family that is wealthy - or upper to middle class will most generally not report it to the police. In wealthy families the abused party knows the person has the connections to get off and get out of it quick, if they call the police most likely the well to do person will not get arrested. And then the person knows they are really going to get it, when they get home.

Society has really gone astray with mental illness absolutely rampant .

It is now estimated that up to one quarter of young adults are now bi polar not taking medication. With an even greater portion suffering from severe depression.

Children are now killing themselves at the highest rate ever in society.

You can change an abuser

There are only two major and significant statistical factors that will change one. First is a true religious conversion. The second is a severe life altering factor or experience.

If you are currently in an abuse situation, know this “you can not change this party.” No amount of love, kindness, help, support or patience will.

And abusive people are masters of manipulating the situation to make you feel its your fault. They will tell you, if you did not say that, or do this a certain way this would never happen. Further they are notorious for knowing how to make up for it later, often being generous with gifts and acts to make up for it.

Society in general is very judgmental about abuse, they often blame the person. Saying why would a person put up with it. I can tell you why being a former abused party. They know how to pick the most forgiving parties, they are generally very smart and have high IQ’s further they are masters of manipulations. Even knowing the bible better than anyone and using it to tell you, you have 2 put up with it and or false very convincing religious conversions to get you to forgive them again.

Forget the police they won’t help you, forget an order of protection.

They police department is filled with them, they abusers know just what to do to get by with stalking, harassing in ways that do not violate them and you can not prove.

Incarceration doesn’t help them either, in fact it worsens them and that proof is our countries prisons are now filled brim with violent criminals.

Many who walked in not being violent, but whom were raped, mutilated in prison. Most not getting the true psychiatric treatment and medications they need to reform. They are taught more violent actions and as the prisons fill more and more with societies ills, they are building more prisons than schools and teaching violence in both. With genetic malfunctions of altered foods, pollution of water the statically rate of violence and flat out mentally handicapped people is on a startling rise in our society.

It is estimated that the general populace now is at an IQ of around 70 which is slightly above mental retardation. When these people who are unfortunate are raised in a society that teaches violence as glamour and sophistication, they see it as a way of life and can not distinguish reality.

Further autism is at a staggering rate, and people with that disease are generally a threat to themselves and others. We simply do not have the health resources as a society 2 deal with these problems!

Here are some key flags you may want to consider that may surprise you to spot an abuser.

Generally they fall in love really fast

They show deep interest in you

Instantly show obsessive behavior towards you

And its hard not to be flattered

They are generally respectful and kind, give gifts

And are wonderful at giving attention and appear to be genuine

They show jealousy immediately, and act extremely territorial over you

Often sending flowers, showing up at your work place

Making you feel as if you are the most special person in the world

The first signs they will show of aggression

Loss of temper over nothing but find a valid excuse for it after they sized you up and know your weakness’. If you are insecure they will prey on that, if you are religious they will take you to church. They know how to dig into the psyche to find their next victim.

Their losses of temper include door slamming, hanging up on you on the phone.

Cussing you out (and or verbal abuse) and then blaming something like they had a bad day, or they drank 2 much or some other person drove them to it.

Its never their fault and they don’t change.

If you are currently involved with an abuser, you can hit an abuse center if you need refuge. You will find it filled with woman and children, dirty stinky mattress’s, foul stench and a team of people who could really for the most part care less if they help you because it’s a constant onslaught of seeing the worst of society/

They learn there is not much they can do, get burned out and become desensitized. The key to not living with an abuser is to see the red flags up front. This is why it is very important that you do know a person before you become intimate with another person because if you become intimate with one. They will stalk you, aggressively scare anyone of who you are interested in and they will bug you and convince you without them you can’t survive.

And frankly they outsmart most everyone because while many are not so smart with other things they are brilliant at hunting their prey.

And knowing how to find them, keep them and their main cause in life is to control! They are masters at it! YOUR MAIN HOPE IS TO SPOT ONE BEFORE

BUT THEY ARE RAMPANT IN SOCIETY AND THEY DON'T WANT THE CURE!